The family-centered care defines the focus of pediatric care because nursing of children can not be optimally peiformed unless each family member is designated the "patient" or "client". Support involves listen to parents verbal and nonverbal messages and acceptance of cultural, socioeconomic, and ethnic values. Parents need help in accepting their own feelings toward the ili child. We must given the opportunity, parents often disclose their feelings of loss of control, anger and guilt. Often parents are not prepared for the child 's behavioral reactions to hospitalization, such as separation behaviors, regression, aggression and hostility. Providing the parenIs with information about these normal and expected behavioral responses can lessen the parent 's anxiety. All this achieved by ejfective use of communucation on the part of the nurse. A therapeutic nurse-patient relationship is a positive trusting, constructive interaction between the nurse, the child and the family.