Çocuk Bakıcısı ile Ailenin İlişkisi
Yıl: 2021 Cilt: 24 Sayı: 47 Sayfa Aralığı: 97 - 111 Metin Dili: Türkçe DOI: 10.31828/tpy1301996120210121m000034 İndeks Tarihi: 22-05-2022
Çocuk Bakıcısı ile Ailenin İlişkisi
Öz: Özellikle şehirlerde, gittikçe daha çok aile çocuklarının bakımı için bakıcı istihdam etmektedir. Çocuk bakıcıları, pek çok iş kolundan farklı olarak, çocuğuna baktıkları ailenin günlük yaşamına dâhil olmakta, hatta bazı ailelerde ailenin bir bireyi gibi görülmektedir. Ayrıca, bu bakıcıların çalıştığı aile düzenlerinde çocuklar günlerinin çoğunu bakıcı ile geçirmektedir. Çocuğun ilk yıllarında yaşadığı etkileşimlerin ve geliştirdiği bağlanma örüntülerinin çocuğun yetişkinlik dönemindeki yaşam uyumunu dahi etkilediği bilindiği için, bakıcıların verdiği bakımın ve çocuğun gelişimi üstündeki etkilerinin incelenmesinin önemi artmıştır. Bununla birlikte, bu alandaki geçmiş çalışmaları bir araya getiren ve tartışan bir inceleme çalışması ulusal ya da uluslararası alanyazında bulunmamaktadır. Bu anlatı incelemesinde, alanyazında bu alanda yapılmış olan yayınlar bir araya getirilerek bu boşluğun giderilmesi amaçlamıştır. Bu amaç doğrultusunda, bu incelemenin iki hedefi vardır. Birincisi, bakıcılığın ve Türkiye’de bakıcılık sektörünün genel bir incelemesinin gerçekleştirilmesi, ikincisi, bakıcılar ve bakıcı istihdam eden ailelerin çeşitli ilişki dinamikleri hakkında alanyazında yer bulmuş bulguların özetlenmesidir.
Anahtar Kelime: The Relationship between the Nanny and the Family
Öz: Especially in the urban settlements, an increasing number of families employ childcare providers, some of whom are nannies. Unlike most of other occupations, nannies are actively involved in the daily lives of their employer families. Moreover, the cared children spend most of the day with their nannies. Since the children’s interactions and their subsequent attachment patterns in the first year of life are known to affect life adjustment in later years, it is important to investigate the nanny care and their effects on the cared children’s psychological development. However, to best of our knowledge, there are no publications, which have evaluated and integrated the literature on the matter. The present narrative review article is aimed towards filling this gap. In accordance with this aim, we have two goals: First, presenting an overview of nannying and nanny employment in Turkey; second, summarizing the literature pertaining to the relationship dynamics between the nannies and the employer families.
Anahtar Kelime: Belge Türü: Makale Makale Türü: Araştırma Makalesi Erişim Türü: Erişime Açık
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